As you have probably noticed, I have not blogged in months. I know, shame on me. But good news is I'm back and ready to share my little heart out about all things digital and social. Although somewhat random, I decided my first post back would take you through my personal experience and thoughts on Twitter. I've been thinking a lot about the future lately and in doing so my mind always wanders to the past, how it all started and where it lead me to.
Click, Follow, Click, Follow
I joined Twitter 2007 and for quite some time it was my only digital presence, and because of that it really shaped my approach to all the networks from that point forward. I was a power networker and adamant about following back those that followed me (with the exception of spammers and shameless promoters) and chatted, shared and supported anyone and everyone who crossed my Twitter path. My philosophy was simple - if someone found me interesting enough to follow, I should open the door and extend the same thing back. This was the early stages of Twitter, when it was small yet growing, and so following back just seemed like the right social thing to do. It was easy to manage then, and we were all trying to learn from each other. Following was the thing to do, and I embraced it fully without hesitation.
Click, follow, click, follow, click, follow. As the site grew so did the follower requests, which required hours of click, follow, click, follow every day just to keep up, not even including time spent actually engaging and interacting with those new followers. I was willing to put in the time though because I was a passionate user and believer in where this whole Twitter thing was going. Today, I'm often asked "how did you get so many followers?" and always think back to the days of click, follow, click, follow and say "for a good part of a year I spent almost all my free time on Twitter following, @ing, DMing and interacting with total strangers, who introduced me to more strangers, whom eventually became friends and my biggest online supporters."
What a Long Strange Trip It's Been
Those early days seem so far away to me now, and it's probably because the voyage through the ever changing and evolving space we call social media has been a journey of trial and error, big success and utter failure. My work and the people who followed, listened to and supported me have shaped and reshaped the person I am and the vision i have for myself in the future. I feel so fortunate to have connected with so many people, many of which I have never met but nonetheless are important to my life.
With that said, there was a time (a little over a year ago) where I just about gave up on Twitter. It just became too unmanageable, time consuming and just plain noisy. The new followers were so hard to sift through because of the influx of crafty spammers, marketers and brands. For those who were watching, I was getting popular and gaining influence, but it seemed so false to me, because more followers didn't mean better relationships or experiences. [CONTINUED...]